How to screw up
the first date with a millionaire
If it is a woman's specific intention
to marry a wealthy man, she has to make an effort to
achieve her goal. From nothing nothing can come - that's
what they say. And she has to fulfil certain criteria
like beauty, personality and style. The biggest problem
some women have with making their dream come true is
an explicitly wrong perception of themselves and the
exceptions rich men have toward their dates.
Playboy bunnies are beautiful, no doubt, but their
photos are designed to please the imagination and
phantasies of men. When asked what they really want,
85 percent of all men say that they would not marry
a woman who looks like a pin-up model. That means
women with a ridiculously prominent cleavage, red
mini skirt, patent-leather high heels, bleached blond
hair, bold make-up, this sexy-sexy look and lip-licking,
and a bitchy affectation is not what's on anymore.
This cliché of a sexy woman evolved sometime
during the eighties and has long been outdated. That
means women who thought they could win a millionaire's
heart with the above-mentioned qualities should reconsider
their methods and think of a new plan.
By the same token, beauty, personality, and style
are not sufficient to conquer a wealthy man either.
It takes a lot more to convince a millionaire that
a woman is the right one for him and maybe even the
woman to marry him and have children with.
Much rather its the subtle, non-buyable things
that attract millionaires to women. Those include an excellent
communication, a calm and settled character, originality,
trust, humour, intellect and independency.
A woman who is not able to communicate openly and clearly
can quickly become boring for a man with prestige and money.
It is very likely that he leads a successful business and
surrounds himself with important people. His time is precious
and he is used to things working easy and quickly and - most
of all - his way! On a first date a woman should therefore
avoid to over-complicate things. Best thing would be to let
him lead the conversation and react to what he says with charm,
wit, intelligence, and a good sense of humour.
Another way of screwing up first
dates with millionaires is to bother them with problems.
On a first date he wants to have fun and get to know
the qualities of a woman. He certainly does not want
to hear anything about failed relationships, difficult
childhoods, money related problems, or other things
that are going wrong. Those kinds of topics should be
held back for possible follow-up dates.
More than anything a woman should avoid asking him
for money, even indirectly. Talking about that model
business she wants to get going, those medicine studies
she always wanted to do, or that luxury holiday she
was never able to afford - all those are warrantors
for failure. A millionaire that gets the impression
a woman is only dating him to get access to his cash
is gone faster than she can blink.